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Best Boyfriend

Here’s a sappy post about my best friend who also happens to be my boyfriend. So corny, I know, but it’s true.

We’ve been together for nearly a whole 365 days now. Which may not seem like a huge deal to those of you out there who are married or have been with your partner for 6 million years, but it’s a big deal for me, and this happens to be my blog.

I’ve answered most of these, however Dylan’s answers are in italics and quoted

Where did we meet? If Im perfectly honest, the answer embarasses me, so I’ll have to give it some background. I was studying at the time, and having a night out with the lovely women I studied with. There were some big age differences between some of us, and some of the 25ish women were explaining Tinder (a dating app) to the older women. I then said I had heard of it, but never bothered to try it out. They then decided to download it on my behalf, and create a profile for me. I thought nothing of it until a couple of days later when I had to spend an entire day waiting for my mom to come out of surgery at the hospital. I saw dylan, swiped right and the rest is history. **We had a few mutual friends, and actually found out we were in the same primary school, I had aftercare with his grandmother and it really was a strange thing that we hadn’t ever met sooner.

First Date I don’t think we had an official first date, but the first one I can remember is going to my favorite vegan cafe, Plant.

First impressions I first met him at my house, after fetching my mom from the hospital to bring her home after her week stay there, she was very drugged on pain medication and he spent most of the time talking to her and making sure she was ok, so he came across as the perfect gentleman, friendly and polite. I also noticed his playful and fun personality, which are all the things I then later fell in love with him for. “You were very kind to your mom”

When did you meet the family He met my mom on the first day, and then the rest of my family a few days later. He then met my dad and stepmom about a month or so down the line. I met his family after a few weeks, they’re all incredible people and I’m genuinely glad they were all included in the package deal.

Any weird habits He sleeps like a starfish and it’s near impossible to move him once he is asleep. “Naps often and for long hours”

Just another day of love with you and I'm so lucky. Thank you for everything 💕

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First thing you noticed about each other I first noticed his hair, he has big, magical curly hair. “I first noticed that you were shy”

Things that annoy you about each other He eats on the bed (crumbs or food in my bed are the worst thing that could happen to me) and sometimes plays games on his phone when I want cuddles. “when you are miserable or upset you go into your own little world”

Who wears the pants This is an outdated and very sexist question in my opinion, but I do believe we both have one leg in the pants, or the skirt, or the dress, or the jumpsuit, or the shorts.

What does the other watch on TV He watches The Flash. “Geordie Shore or Game of Thrones” 

Any Traditions “not yet really” 

Talents the other person has Dylan is incredibly patient and able to learn new things quickly, he is also musical and he juggles very well. “Baking and you can ride a unicycle”

Happy Dills 🌞 @iamdylanpf

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What could the other person spend hours doing He could spend hours playing guitar or being in the ocean. “Napping, cuddling or baking”

🌊 my favorite boy checking his ocean #mancrushmonday

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Foods the other person dislikes Dylan dislikes whole tomatoes and seafood, but not sushi. “any meats”

Foods the other person loves Chicken “cauliflower tacos”

And there you have it, for all you nosey weasels out there, Love Courtney (and Dylan)

Welcome to the family Blaziken (Blaze) 🦁

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bonus fact: We adopted a little ginger kitten together and Dylan named him Blaziken (like the fire pokemon)


Lindt & Le Creuset

My mom and I got to attend the Lindt and Le Creuset “perfect pairing” demonstration at Silwood kitchen this week. I studied there last year and will take any opportunity to be back there.

These are two of our most favorite things. I am a cotton, chiffon pink, soleil and cool mint lover, while my mom prefers classic cherry red and carribean blue. On the lindt side, I am a firm believer in 85% lindt, as well as a good ‘ol faithful red lindor ball. My mom on the other hand loves the white chocolate lindor balls with a great passion.


These were added into our goodie bags, The lime flavor is new and Im excited to try it, I do prefer the flavored chocolates with little pieces in them, like the “Touch of sea salt”

We also recieved recipe cards with the recipes demonstrated to us. All the recipes are specially designed to use a 100g Lindt bar and are portioned out to fit perfectly in certain Le Creuset items (a perfect excuse to expand your collection)


I even got to see my friend, Fudge at Silwood. He was friendly and as handsome as ever.


We had a glorious tea break where we were served “The Grasshopper” a mint infused hot chocolate, along with various treats provided by Silwood as well as some chocolates.

I had a salted caramel cheesecake, and a beautiful little vanilla tea cake.


We were shown how to make this chocolate tart as well as a chocolate fondant, and the mint hot chocolate.


We all got beautiful golden boxes as well as a goodie bag to take home with us


The morning ended off with us being served an incredible chocolate fondant, served with a white chocolate lindor ball in the centre. It was a liquid chocolate delight.


We each received a mini fluted pie dish with our own chocolate tart inside the golden gift boxes. Mine was a gorgeous Soleil yellow dish, and my mom received an elegant white Cotton on.

We both thoroughly enjoyed the morning and I would highly recommend signing up for the Le Creuset newsletter to hear about these incredible customer events.

Love Q

Tea Party – “Boere Sjiek”

My mom took me for tea at a place called “Boere Sjiek” roughly translated that means “Farmer Chic” for anyone out there that isn’t South African. I was a little apprehensive as this place is in the middle of an industrial area… However, I seriously want all of my birthdays to be held at this place and Ill probably insist on having my wedding here too. The attention to detail really is next level, the entire trip was an experience of note. I don’t want to give too much away but this place is a must. They only do quiches, cakes and cupcakes, so eat lunch before you go. Their prices are incredibly reasonable, the quiche is R30 ( around $2.50) IMG_7379  A bunny cake stand and pastel pink cupcake!!IMG_7380 IMG_7381 IMG_7382 IMG_7383 IMG_7384  Even their sugar is pinkIMG_7385 IMG_7386 IMG_7387 IMG_7388 IMG_7389 IMG_7390 IMG_7391 IMG_7392 IMG_7393 IMG_7394  this was what my mom’s teapot came with, a furry little tea cosy. IMG_7396 IMG_7397 IMG_7400  my latte with pink sugarIMG_7401 IMG_7402  a giant pond filled with baubles and fresh roses, I couldn’t have been any happier if I tried. IMG_7404 IMG_7405 IMG_7406I hope you’ve enjoyed this post, and if you are in Cape Town, grab your best friends and head out this way for a fancy little tea party.

12 Kiewiet Street, Okavango Park, Cape Town. Phone: 021 982-2023

Love Quartz xx

The Spice Route – Cape Town

Here are some photo’s I took during a day spent at The Spice Route, it was really really hot the day we went but all the places are either in shady spots, or they have aircon. This is a wonderful place for the entire family as it really and truly caters for everyone, there’s a play park for children and the entire place is wheel-chair friendly. IMG_7004  There’s loads to do to keep you busy all day long. IMG_7006  These tiles are hand-painted and so gorgeous up close. IMG_7013 IMG_7016  We decided to do the chocolate tasting, it’s all dark, vegan friendly chocolate. Its well worth the money and such an experience, the chocolate is some of the best I’ve tasted, this is a must, even for those who aren’t so keen on dark chocolates.IMG_7018 IMG_7030 IMG_7036 IMG_7059 IMG_7065 IMG_7069 and finally, Marrick and I after a long, and very hot day. Despite the heat it really was a lovely day.

Here is their website for more information:

I hope you’ve enjoyed reading this, Love Quartz x

Company Gardens & Chart Rose Farm

Here are some photo’s from a day that started in the Company Garden’s in Cape Town city centre, and ended in the Chart Rose Farm.

The garden is in Queen Victoria street, near the top end of Adderly street and it’s next to the Parliament buildings. There are quite a few things to see and do around there as the planetarium is there, as well as the museum, holocaust centre, national library and St George’s cathedral. Alternatively you could just wander around with a R5 packet of peanuts and feed the squirrels like we did…

The squirrels are incredibly tame and quite cheeky so watch out for them.

IMG_7081 IMG_7082 IMG_7090  There is some more info here

We then made our way to the Chart Rose Farm. Although the roses are beautiful, don’t bank on having lunch there, their menu isn’t very great and they don’t have any options for children. They do offer fresh cakes so perhaps that is a better bet. IMG_7095 You hand in your car keys and they give you a bucket and the cutters. You can roam around picking as many roses as you like, I found that the two-toned ones had a much stronger scent.

The roses cost R5 a stem and ours lasted for about 12 days, it is better to pick the closed buds as they do last much longer. IMG_7101 IMG_7105 IMG_7108 IMG_7121  The farm was purchased in the 1930’s and has been in the same family ever since then.

There is more info here on the Chart Rose Farm. IMG_7123 IMG_7129

I hope you have enjoyed this post, Love Quartz